Obstacles are a fact of life. If there were no roadblocks to get over and around, the prize at the end of the journey would be worth much less. Challenges are what creates change and change is GROWTH. The growth part happens when you find your way through those challenges. The following tips will help you push through any obstacles that come your way.
1. KNOW you CAN.
YOU CAN DO IT. Say it over and over: "I can do it! I can do it! I can do it!"
Thoughts become things. You HAVE TO KNOW in your mind that you can do it, no matter what your outside world looks like you to you, no matter how many limitations you may physical see, mentally you must KNOW YOU CAN. So take this moment to acknowledge to yourself that.
When you experience defeat, the defeat happened in your mind long before it happened in your life. Every triumph and every failure, every achievement and every loss...it all happened in your mind before it happened in your life. This is neither good nor bad, it is what it is and going through this process is what creates the strength you need to keep on pursuing and accomplishing your goals. And since it all begins in your mind, work on your mind. Take this moment to acknowledge that you have everything within you to be successful and BELIVE that YOU CAN push through any obstacle that comes your way.
2. SURROUND yourself with POSITIVE people.Keep yourself around people who support you to reaching your goals. Positive people that understand what you are working towards and whom will support you through the process, are the only ones you should give real time to. I get it, not everyone around you is going to be supportive 100% of the time, but be conscious to only allow the positive ones "in," into your field of energy, onto your "path.' Even if you have to be around them because you work with them or you live with them, do NOT allow their negative vibes to be projected onto you. Try to keep the conversation out of the negative zone by not bringing up topics that would make them go there and when they go there just because, don't get involved in the conversation. If you do, you'll more than likely feed the fire and it'll suck your energy. Rather, politely change the subject or if you must, remove yourself from the physical conversation for the moment.
Be aware of and limit your association with those: who are negative, who do not support you, who complain, who blame others, who gossip, who live in the past, who make excuses and anyone else whom you do not want to be like.
Do surround yourself with people: who are positive, who encourage you, who are bettering themselves, who are happy, who talk about ideas not others, who take responsibility for their future, who are achieving their goals and anyone else you admire and would like to be like.
Keeping close association with people who are doing what you want to be doing and achieving their goals will help you get to your goals!
3. Have a PLAN in place.
Now that you have your goal and you know what it is that you want to achieve, do you have the plan by which you will get there? When you have a plan in place, your confidence grows and confidence itself can take you right over any roadblocks you may face.
The plan is NECESSARY. It's not set in stone, but you need to start somewhere so begin with the end in mind. You can create a plan any way you want. A plan is simply a map to get you to your goal. So begin with where you are now and know where you want to be, let's say, a year from now. Then start filling in the blanks...a 1 month from now, a 3 months from now and a 6 months from now goal will set you up for your one year goal.
Now that you know your goals, start listing the things you need to DO to get to your goal.
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4. Write Your Mission Statement.
Your mission statement will be the strongest tool you have to push you over any obstacles in your journey to success. We're talking about changing patterns, habits, changing old programing. WE ALL HAVE BEEN CONDITIONED to think, act and expect life to go a certain way. One of my mentors taught me a way to find out what I my condition was.
Would you like to find out what you've been conditioned?
Ok. If you would like to know what your current "conditioning" is at...look at the
life that you are living right now. That is what you've been conditioned to think, act and expect. The current life that you are living is a reflection of the current conditioning of your mind. If you want to change your life, you must change your mental conditioning. You must change the way you think and act and you must change what you expect from life. If you don't make those changes you are bound to stay the same, living in the same life, with the same 'ole same 'ole as always.
How do you change your conditioning?
You make your mind over every single day. You read and feel your mission statement. Your mission statement will remind you of what it is that you want and when the times get tough, it'll remind you of why you want it. It'll also give you the plan by which you will attain that goal and most of all, as you are reading that mission statement each and every day, 2 times a day, it'll put you in the vibration of the fulfilled achievement of that goal and
being in that vibration for just a few minutes 2 times a day will attract to you helpers in the form of people, tools, opportunities, thoughts, feelings and more all on the same frequency of assisting you to getting to your goals.
5. Get into ACTION.ACTION IS THE ANTIDOTE.
You are building your dreams. You are going after
yourgoals
. You are following
yourheart
. No ones doing it for you. And yes, you'll come upon roadblocks...and action is the only way around the road blocks. Keep moving forward. Taking action get's you to think in terms of solutions and solutions thinking will get you around the roadblocks in no time. There is ALWAYS a way around ANY problem, limit, roadblock or obstacle. ALWAYS AWAY AROUND OR THROUGH. But only if you take action will you ever see that way.
Keep in mind: No one is going to take care of you, better than you. No one can or will do it for you. But when you make a decision and follow that decision with action, then you'll start making things happen for yourself, actions that only you could ever make happen for you.
So make a decision that you are getting into action RIGHT NOW. Start now with what you have and work from there. You don't need to see the road a million miles ahead, you just need to see enough to move forward. Take it one day at a time, put one foot in front of the other and TAKE ACTION NOW. Do something RIGHT NOW in accordance with your plan to get you to your goal.
So, hurry...Challenge yourself to be a doer, not just a hearer and take action now and watch your obstacles disappear into your past.
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